\begin{bmatrix}
 1 & -1 &  0 &  0 \\
 0 &  1 & -1 &  0 \\
-1 & -1 &  4 & -1 \\
-1 &  0 &  0 &  0 \\
 0 &  0 &  0 &  0 \\
 0 &  0 & -4 &  1
\end{bmatrix}